Tag: self-awareness
If Your Way Isn’t Working, You Need to Stop Insisting on It
Many successful people assume that the way they behave is a substantial part of what helped them get to where they are. Whether or not that’s true, as leaders, we may neglect to take into... Continue reading
How to Use Body Language to Be Effective in a Tough Work Situation
I picked up the phone the other morning and as soon as I heard my client speak, I realized that although she was calling at her regular time, she wasn’t using her “regular” voice. “How... Continue reading
True Lessons in How to Make Presenting Less Painful
I have a love/hate relationship with public speaking. Or maybe it’s a terror/exhilaration relationship. Anyway, it’s a part of my job that runs the gamut from stressful and draining to highly rewarding. Last week, one... Continue reading
Do You Notice Every Relevant Thing You See?
When your expectations get in the way, you may not notice what's right in front of you. There’s been enough research done about cognitive biases that by now we all know we have them, even... Continue reading
Here Are the 3 Unexpected Things I Learned from Surviving a TEDx Talk
A couple of years ago, when a dear colleague emailed me to ask if I’d consider speaking at TEDxBaylorSchool, I was terrified. Not of speaking, per se, but of the combination of requirements that characterize... Continue reading
When a Good Thing Triggers a Surprisingly Bad Response
This holiday season I gave a small gift to a local supplier as a token thank you. It was clear from her immediate reaction that she’s not used to receiving client gifts. She started out... Continue reading
How to Choose an Inspiring Theme for The New Year
Do you know anyone who can’t wait for this year to end? I certainly do, and who can blame them, between family and work troubles, political turmoil and natural disasters. Some of them are looking... Continue reading
How to Give Uncomfortable Personal Feedback, with Grace
Most people feel awkward raising personal issues with colleagues. That’s especially true when those issues concern the physical body, seem like an inherent expression of the person themselves, or are things we would feel mortified... Continue reading