Sometimes, instead of pushing for a yes, it’s better to get the message that there’s no way, no how, no hope, no need, no budget, no possibility, not now, probably not ever, we just don’t... Continue reading
This past weekend, I attended a meeting sponsored by the Omega Institute to hear Thich Nhat Hanh speak. He's the Vietnamese Buddhist monk who was nominated by Martin Luther King, Jr. for the Nobel Peace... Continue reading
I usually keep my work life and my religious life fairly discrete; I’m a big believer in the separation of church and state, and my religious beliefs and practices are really nobody’s business. But on... Continue reading
As a frequent flier and someone who craves autonomy, I prefer an aisle seat. It’s the only way to preserve some slight distance between overly assertive or careless neighbors and me. It also lets me... Continue reading
Here’s the scenario: It’s 11:15 at night in Seattle. Daughter and I are trying to check into a moderately-priced airport hotel for a layover on our way to Vancouver. The complication is that I am... Continue reading
My family was incredibly lucky on 9/11. Some of us were periodic users of the Chambers Street subway station -- but not that day. A dear friend worked right near the Pentagon -- he was... Continue reading
Last week I took a couple of people out to lunch at a local restaurant where I’ve been before for both business and social lunches: The food is reasonably good, the service is reasonably responsive,... Continue reading
One of the things that helps get me through challenges at work is how much I love my office. It makes a difference that I had complete control -- at least as much as the... Continue reading
One challenging Monday, after assessing the situation at hand, taking stock, and gauging the chances of success, I triaged my task list and rescheduled my afternoon as follows: 2:00 – Don’t jump out the window.... Continue reading
One of the amazing things about happiness -- not just rose-colored-glasses pretending, wishing, and hoping everything will be all right, but actually feeling good -- is that if you persist in it long enough, others... Continue reading
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